It's not the place but the heart

Spring is coming to the UK but the weather still a bit cold for a tropical woman like me. These days, I feel so much better and alive, like everything is quite manageable. Perhaps, I just wish it will stay like this forever, I mean my sanity.

Life in here is good, but for me, it's not the place that is the most important for me. Life is good depends on where I put my heart. It depends on how I see and think about this life. Without that awareness, no matter where I settle up, nothing will change.

2019's Story in a Wrap

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Last year was a roller-coaster for me. It was a healing year where I positively braved my self to dig deeper to the root; to study more about my self and accept all my obscurest side. It was the year where I earned my true peace and freedom as well. It was not a happy journey, but it was worth it and full of blessings.

Mirror

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There was her,
the ordinary-looking woman, without any, make up on, with a few freckles and scars all over her face.

Did she think she is beautiful?

No One

February: Valentine? Life?

I know this is a late post, but let me share it.


2017, I still remember when I wasn't ready for a commitment, Mat has prepared to ask me to become his girlfriend on Valentine's day. He has written a song, a beautiful song for me. At that time, I didn't let him do that because I wasn't sure about many things.


I didn't want to give a flight of fancy to him after all of his efforts. A ton of things was complicated back then, so I didn't want to make it more tangled.

Don't be discouraged

There are people who like to drag you down by their insults, criticisms and humorous put-downs.

They could be anyone.

January: New Job?

Tidak terasa kita telah berjalan di 2019, seperti biasanya, ritual berbagi resolution list di media sosial dimulai. Aku sendiri belum punya resolusi, 2018 lewat dengan begitu cepat, kadang aku masih overwhelmed dengan kenyataan itu.

Toxic

Sebelum kamu mulai baca, kamu perlu tahu kalau topik ini topik sensitif, jadi jangan baca pakai perasaan, nanti baper sendiri. 


Belakangan ini aku melihat banyak sekali orang-orang yang share mengenai masalah pasangan hidup dan pernikahan. Mereka dihujani dengan pertanyaan, sindiran, paksaan dan hinaan yang mengganggu kehidupan mereka, terutama dari generasi diatas mereka. Tidak sedikit yang psikologisnya jadi agak terganggu dengan masalah ini.

"Kapan nikah?"

"Kapan punya pacar?"

dan Kapan lainnya.

Parent's Heart

I will never know the heart of my parent until I become a parent my self. Sometimes, I wondered about their love language. There're many kinds of parents, for their childrens, they will always be their best parents.

My Love for Baking and Dreams

Hello everyone~! This is just another story about my life. I try to update about my life as often as I could on my blog, because I believe some of you want to know about that. And I want you all to know more about me. :)

freshly baked Strawberry Almond Tart, made with high quality butter and
real almond cream. No preservatives.

The Imperfect Me

✧ This post is just another story about my life ✧ you can skip it if you don't want to know, but I hope you'll read it though lol. 

I've been really busy lately until I don't have any time to catch up with some friends, I even skipped my friend's surprise birthday event just because I got a deadline. And moreover, I've neglected my blog for a while.. I feel sorry for all my readers.. •́ㅿ•̀

About Marriage and Children - Last

Hello ladies and a man, thank you so much for all your feedbacks on my previous post about Marriage and Children. I'm glad that everyone is so open-minded about this topic! I have to write this reciprocal post as my final opinion about this topic and to thank all of you. :)

About Marriage and Childen

Hello ladies, how are you? Sometimes I'm wondering why people should get married. When I asked my cousin, she gave me a really shocking answer that I never thought about it before. She was married in her 32/33s something I don't really remember. It's kinda late for asian people. lol