Am I ugly?

Since I was a kid, I always had insecurities bubbling inside me, like a poison that settled in my brain. Maybe it was because I was bullied as a child, or because of the comments from older people about my body. Growing up, we were close with the older gen, who somehow felt they had the right to point out how “ugly” we were or how imperfect we looked. It became so normalized that they did it all the time.

Kata Maaf Tidak Murah Namun Hatilah Yang Kotor

Banyak orang sering bertindak dengan mengikuti ego mereka kemudian menyesal belakangan. Lalu, dengan mudahnya meminta maaf seperti kejadian tersebut tidak ada artinya. Padahal, tindakan mereka telah merusak banyak hal; terutama trust.

Maaf jika terlalu sering diucapkan, maka tidak bernilai lagi karena si pemilik kata maaf terlalu sering melakukan kesalahan dan tidak mencoba memperbaiki dirinya. Kata maaf jadi terasa murah dan tidak sincere.