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Thursday, August 22, 2024

Why Are You Always Unlucky?

Have you ever thought, "Why is my life always so unlucky?" Maybe you’ve noticed that when you make friends, people secretly dislike you and talk behind your back. When you’re in a relationship, your partner leaves you because of your behavior. When you got married, your husband often mistreats you, and you find yourselves fighting, even in front of your children. Every time you try something new, obstacles and failures seem to follow. Why does it feel like that?


Have you ever felt anger towards God?

Have you ever complained to Him?

Or maybe you’ve blamed God in your heart?

It’s common to blame God when we feel our lives are filled with bad luck. But if we’re honest with ourselves, sometimes our misfortunes are the result of our own choices.


Let’s break it down:

When you have friends, and they don’t like you, have you ever considered that the problem might not be with them, but with you? Sometimes, people are unaware that their personality or behavior might be off-putting to others. How do you communicate? Do you lie or spread rumors? Reflect on your actions and see if there’s something you could improve.

When your relationships end, have you considered whether you were a good partner? Were you supportive, or did you make things difficult with constant drama or unreasonable demands? Relationships require effort from both sides, and anyone would get tired if they’re always the one giving. If your partner is toxic, leave. There are plenty of others out there.

When you’re married and constantly fighting with your partner, remember, you chose to marry them. Before always blaming your partner, consider seeking help, like marriage counseling. Both of you should work on improving yourselves and finding solutions together.

I have a friend who often complains about his life and blames everyone else for his misfortunes. He struggles with mental health, but he makes no effort to improve himself or his situation. Instead, he demands that those around him accommodate his needs. Over time, people grow tired and distance themselves from him. Everyone has their own struggles, and it’s unfair to expect constant pity. When confronted, he lashes out, creating unnecessary drama. Later, he blames his poor mental health, but nothing ever changes because he refuses to take responsibility.

Are you like this? If so, it’s time to stop. Start reflecting on yourself. Are you really unlucky because of God, or are your choices and actions contributing to your situation? Instead of blaming God, make a list of the ways your own decisions might have led to your challenges—whether it’s impatience, unwise choices, or lack of self-control.

If you want things to get better, start working on yourself. Become a better person because, no matter what, God always loves you and is waiting for you to return to Him.

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